When you read the story of an 11-year-old allegedly kidnapped on her way to school (and thankfully saved by a heroic teacher's aide), there are likely several things running through your mind: "That's why I don't let my children walk to school." "Why didn't her mother teach her about stranger danger?" "Why did the 11-year-old say he was 'a friend?'" I'm sure it's normal for these thoughts and questions to immediately come up, but it's not very helpful to dwell on them, and